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Love

I think that for the most part being Trans definitely gets you to reconsider a lot. Even who you are attracted to. For it throws everything up into the air. First you have to deal with the fact that Your Trans and the whole Transition road. Then on top of this you discover which part of the spectrum your attracted to and it can come in many forms. Sexuality is fluid and people can identify as many various types on the spectrum. So just as people can so can you. For some its obvious for others its a journey. In all of this there is no right or wrong. You just have to find out what your comfortable with and which suits you. This to can change as well. Now in all of this there is Love. Sometimes we can't help who we fall in Love. It can surprise you in ways you could not begin to imagine. You just have to stay open. Well to some of us all of this is obvious for others its a journey.

Others

I have been studying how different women walk . It seems to me that there is nothing Sexual about the way they move. There are those that feel themselves. (No I don't mean like that. lol) There are some that tap into there sexy side and allow that to influence how they move. But for the most part normal women just walk normally. Just the same as everyone else. I know this is not something revolutionary but I had to see it for myself. It comes down to the maturity thing again. I know I might not be making ant sense here. Yet I am fully persuaded about what I have observed. It really does help Trans people to realize that they don't have to have exaggerated ways of Walking, Gestures etc. It all comes down to just being yourself. So if you feel like a hot babe (as some men would term it), then let it flow if not then just act normally and walk the way you would ordinarily. Neither is incorrect.

Me Thinks

I have been thinking which is allowed every now and then. Being Trans or even Androgynous does not determine your Sexual preferences. Yes the one is a Gender issues as being assigned the wrong gender. the other is aspiring to straddle the fence between the two sexes. Neither neither nor. So you still have to find out who your attracted to. Being Androgynous does not necessarily equate to a specific sexual preference. so hence the Similarities.

Strange

Ok this is going to sound a bit strange. But I have The Tranny Porn Stars for helping me find and identify my Sexuality. I cant see myself as going Stealth if I were ever to Transition. People must know that I am Trans and Proud to be so. I refuse to be some Grey Suburban Non Descript Female. I know that it works for others and it takes all kinds to make the world. it is just not for me.

Maybe, Maybe Not

To this i still firmly believe that trans Girls are not the same as women. It is a different type of Sexuality. I know that some people will vehemently disagree with me. Well it is just my opinion. Yes some would want to Go Stealth and be recognized as a women. There are those of us who want to be seen as Transsexuals. So there I said. Make of it what you will. I will however at a later stage go into it a bit deeper.