Here we go again.There are definitely certain common events that happen to all T Girls dependent on their situation. So it can range from being Supportive to down right Soul Destroying. Once again all dependent on the circumstances.
It is simply known as Coming Out as anyone else in the LGBTQ Family will tell you. I just wish i did not have to get into this.
Things to Consider before Coming Out:
1. Who will support you Financially or will you be able to support yourself Financially?
2. If you do work what will the Fall Out be at Work. Will you be Ostracized or even Fired?
3. If your at School will you have Friends that will stand by your Side or will you be totally Alone?
4. How will your Family react.
a. Will they kick you Out?
b. If they do kick you Out where will you go? Who will support you and
for how long?
Can you trust these people to take care of you or is just lip service
c. Will you still be able to go to School?
d. Will your Family turn their back on you? "This One is for Adults"
5. How will your friends react? Will you have any left? "This One is
for Adults"
6. Are you willing to spend the rest of your Life alone without a Partner?
Through Divorce or when you have come Out. "This One is for Adults"
7. Are you prepared to lose your Family? "This One is for Married Adults"
The list goes on and on but this should be enough to get you thinking. You really have to count the Cost before Coming Out. This List is not to deter, rather it will prepare you for possible Fall Out. The most surprising thing is how people react. You will be Surprised by Who Does What. Well for the most part. The rest are pretty much predictable.You know who I mean.
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