It Helps

It really helps if you find someone you can relate and build a relationship with. It does not even have to be in the flesh it can be over the Net. Obviously you have to be careful. So for instance http://www.lauras-playground.com/ is a good place since their Moderators are forever preset and wont stand for anything or anyone being inappropriate even keeping the Trolls out. Obviously it take awhile to build up relationships so be patient at least you will be speaking to Family. This link works so try it out.