Patience

I really don't know if this is something that can be developed being in the Closet with no possible way of Coming Out. It's not like you have a choice. It would be different if you had a date you would set for yourself and then have the Patience to wait until everything is in Place. For me it's more like Perseverance with a capital P. Torture would be another word you could use also with a capital T. I suppose there are many words but the reality is one that obvious is a painful reminder especially when watching other peoples  Vlogs about Coming Out. Like we really need to be reminded. Well we can be happy for those that are able to come out even though it's hard. Bloody Hard.