Mature

I think that to a large degree I have matured as Trans. I understand somethings a lot better than I used to. I know that maybe we all go through the same phase when we first identify Ourselves as being Trans. I know we have to kinda have to go through puberty and all that girls go through since we never had the chance. It is almost a right of passage for us. What I do understand now is that gestures or the way you walk or even they way you talk what you wear etc. Does not make you Trans . All of this helps but it is not the be all and end all. What is more important that you become more assured of yourself apart from all the paraphernalia. For ultimately it is about you and no what you can add to yourself. I hope this is making sense for it certainly makes sens for . I am just a more mature version of myself now. Really I cant really express it any other way. I still like the paraphernalia but I don't need it to make me feel Trans. For I am Trans already.